By jacquelinezenn@gmail.com (Jacqueline Zenn)

Did you know that it only takes a tenth of a second to make a first impression? So when you meet someone for the first time, you need to be on your game from the very beginning — but do you know exactly how to make a good first impression?

Whether you’re meeting new connections, team members, potential employers, or customers, here is alist of tips to help you put your best foot forward and make a great first impression.

1. Arrive early.
2. Be empathetic.
3. Actively listen.
4. Be mindful of your body language and posture.
5. Modulate your pitch and tone of voice.
6. Choose your words wisely.
7. Dress the part.
8. Make eye contact.
9. Know your audience.
10. Come prepared.
11. Be authentic.
12. Put your phone away.
13. Make a connection.
14. Don’t forget to follow up.

14 Tips for Making a Good First Impression

1. Arrive Early.

Actor Billy Porter said it in his book Unprotected: A Memoir, “Fifteen minutes early is on time, on time is late, and late is unacceptable.”

Arriving a little early for a meeting shows your punctuality and gives you a little more time to ensure everything is in place. If you’re giving a presentation, arriving early gives you a moment to test the equipment you’re using. If you’re early to a job interview, you’ll have time to go over your elevator pitch to yourself, adjust your tie, or make sure your hair isn’t out of place.

2. Be Empathetic.

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the same feelings as another person. It can help you come across as personable when it comes to first impressions. Of course, you want to be professional and not cross boundaries. However, showing that you understand the person or group you’re speaking to and that what they’re saying resonates with you will help you form a genuine connection.

To show empathy, ask questions with genuine curiosity and listen to understand — not just respond. And make a point to stay focused and engaged in the interaction.

3. Actively listen.

Most people don’t like repeating themselves or answering the same question multiple times — it makes them feel like they aren’t being listened to. You don’t want your first impression to be that you’re an inattentive listener, so practice active listening.

Active listening is giving the speaker your undivided attention and paying attention to what’s said and the intention behind it. Listen for opportunities to ask questions pertaining to the discussion. Asking the right questions shows you’re engaged — just don’t ask something the speaker already answered.